First of all, you have to decide what you want. Starting a new life, a person is able to move in a variety of directions, because before him lies a sea of opportunities and a variety of choices. In order not to be dissatisfied with the result again, he must understand what he wants to get from life.
Decide on your goals and desires and start to act.
You may encounter several obstacles on your way to new happiness. The first one is the wrong inner setting. Find out what stereotypes you have accumulated in your mind and prevent you from realizing your most daring ideas. Some of the statements come from childhood, and you have never questioned them as axioms. Now it is time to change your mind all your life, to see what you have made mistakes about, and to get rid of harmful thoughts.
A person who starts a new life should have an easy life at heart.
So you need to let go of the past and forget all the hurt feelings. For the last time, analyze your past actions, draw useful lessons from them, draw appropriate conclusions and archive them. Mentally seal the past in a large chest and promise yourself not to go back to it again without much need. Let go of all the grievances that weigh heavily on your heart. Whoever hurt you – relatives, friends, colleagues, strangers or yourself – forgive them with all your heart. Understand that people around you have their own motives to act in a certain way.
Carry out an audit.
Determine what you will take with you into your new life and what you will change. The categories you need to consider include personal qualities, occupation and activity, circle, place of residence, and lifestyle. What you are dissatisfied with should be changed. However, it is important not to be afraid of innovation and to trust yourself more.
Create space for a new life.
For this you need to get rid of the junk – in your head and around you. You have already figured out your thoughts and attitudes in the first step. It’s time for external changes. Clear your home of trash that you don’t need. Understand that it prevents you from living and prevents energy from circulating. Clear the rubble of things you haven’t used for a long time, and you’ll see how much easier it will be for you. Transform your apartment, make repairs and reshuffles.
Think about whether there are any aspects of your work that you are not satisfied with.
If you go there as a hard labour, it may be worth changing your field of work. Don’t be afraid to learn something new, to explore new areas. You can change jobs at any age, the main thing is to have a great desire and make certain efforts.
If you are burdened by failures in your personal life, you should start working on a relationship.
When you do not see a way out of this situation, it is worth changing your partner or partner. Only before that honestly answer yourself, whether your relationship has a future, whether you have done everything possible to save them, whether the person who is near you is right for you. If you show sincerity in an internal conversation, get a guide to action and a chance for personal happiness.